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Seorang Hamba Allah dimuka bumi. Mom of 2 kids. A wife. A single daughter. An Engineer to a specialist contractor co. Semoga kita semua selamat melayari hidup ini dengan REDHA-NYA.

Wednesday, June 25, 2014

Muhammad Muaz Muqri Is 2!

Allah selamatkan kamu..
Allah selamatkan kamu..
Allah selamatkan Muaz Muqri..
Allah selamatkan kamu..

Happy Birthday to you...
Happy birthday to you..
Happy Birthday To Muaz..
Happy birthday to you!

Dalam banyak2 lagu dalam dunia ini..
Dalam bahasa apa pun jua..
Nyanyian hari lahir tetap popular dan hampir semua orang hafalkannya.
Betul kan?


Semoga Allah melindungimu duhai anak..
Mama ayah takkan mampu untuk menjagamu sepanjang masa..
Walau kamu berada disisi,
tetap hanya pada Allah lah tempat bergantungnya kita semua..


Semoga Allah memeliharamu setiap masa,
Dijauhkan dari perkara2 yg membahayakan,
dan daripada anasir2 jahat..
dan daripada api neraka..
dan daripada kesakitan dan kesengsaraan..
Semoga Allah memberikan kesihatan yg terbaik buatmu..
Semoga kamu mematuhi segala suruhan dan larangan Allah..
Semoga kamu berjaya didunia dan diakhirat dengan iman..
Semoga kamu hidup dan mati didalam iman..
Dan semoga Allah jauhkan kamu dari segala macam jenis kemaksiatan..


Kalau nak ditulis..rasanya tak cukup page ni mama nak tulis doa2 mama buatmu anak..
Mama sekadar ingin kamu tahu betapa mama dan ayah terlalu menyayangimu dan kakak..
 Semoga kamu membesar dengan pimpinan dan rahmat dari Allah..
Semoga kamu tidak akan pernah tersesat dari jalan Allah..
Mama ayah terlalu takut dan risau akan dunia akhir zaman ini..
Hanya doa dan didikan yg mampu kami berikan buatmu..


Kerana sayang, mama gagahkan diri shopping bahan kek dan belon pada siang 11 jun 2014.
mama mulakan proses membaking kek untuk sambutan kecil2an hari lahirmu..
selewat jam 12 malam.
Siap baking jam 2.30 pagi.. sambil menunggu kek sejuk untuk disimpan,
mama preparekan semampu mungkin untuk backdrop photocorner..
terhad..hanya A4 paper dan inkjet printer yang ada..
Semuanya persediaan last minit.
Kerana sebelumnya mama diserang sakit telinga yang kritikal..
mama berdoa pada Allah moga mama diberikan kekuatan..
 Alhamdulillah..
Selesai dengan rasa puas hati yang teeeeerrramat sangat..
Walau simple mimple tetapi cukup untuk membuatkan semua orang happy..


Dan..
kakak punya frozen brownies tak ketinggalan..
kakak sampai merajuk dengan mama sebab dia nak kek yg sama macam muaz..
susah betul pujuk kakak..
Nanti besar..muaz mesti jaga kakak baik2 penuh kasih sayang ok..
kakak banyak berkorban perasaan demi adik tau sayang..


Semua orang sayang kamu..
Selamat hari lahir yang ke 2 tahun!


Monday, June 23, 2014

Sepetang di Zoo Johor


Beberapa kali ke sini,
baru kali ini rasa nak update blog.
Zoo Johor tidaklah sebesar Zoo Melaka atau Zoo Negara,
tapi cukuplah mengambil masa sejam dua disini bagi menggembirakan hati anak2 tercinta.
seronok tengok Muaz dah pandai nk pointing mana2 haiwan..
sebelum ni Muaz masih baby, belum exited sangat katanya..

Wafa si budak tadika ni pun suka benar datang sini walau dah banyak kali..
 

Dengan tiket bergarga RM2.00 untuk dewasa dan RM1.00 untuk kanak2,
teramatlah murah untuk berkata tidak jika sekadar mengambil angin sambil anak2 dapat belajar sesuatu yang baru..


Selalunya kami akan datang pada waktu pagi, dimana pada waktu pagilah selalunya kita akan dpt lihat haiwan2 sedang lapar, pekerja memberi makan haiwan2, membersihkan kandang2 dsbgnya.

Keseluruhanya boleh tahan seronok untuk anak2 dan mak ayah..
Datang johor kalau tak tahu mana nak pergi bolehla jadikan salah satu destinasi..


Jumpa lagi lain waktu!

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

7 Things your Muslim wife won’t tell you

7 Things your Muslim wife won’t tell you

by Wajih Ahmed
Source: http://thedailyreminders.com

Filed under: Family,Featured,Lifestyle,Marriage |
Couple Untitled by Julia Manzerova / Creative Commons
Most men have a hard time understanding women. Even a woman they’ve been married to for years. One minute she’s perfectly fine, the next, she’s crying like a baby. She complains about something but when we offer advice on how to fix it, she still isn’t satisfied. After several years of marriage (and counseling) I’ve learned to not worry so much about what my wife says. Instead, I should worry about what she doesn’t say.
1. Above all, She Wants Your love
When a wife shows her husband less respect, he in turn shows her less love.
And when a husband shows his wife less love, she in turn shows him less respect.
And the vicious cycle repeats itself.
Stop this prophecy before it becomes self-fulfilling. Show love to your wife.
That’s what she wants. Love her despite her flaws and quirks.
And Inshallah, she’ll respect you despite your flaws and quirks.
2. She’s Bored
It’s the same thing every day.
Week in and week out.
Not only is she bored but she’s also tired.
She has to care for the kids and run the household and then pamper you.
Just thinking about doing that every day makes me want to crawl under my covers and hide. I can imagine how the average Muslim housewife must feel.
And let’s not forget about working woman. Many Muslim women have to work a full time job as well as hold a house down.
So brothers, I implore you, make your wife feel special. Give her a break.
Take her out sometimes. Surprise her with a surprise meal. Bring her favorite desert home.
Just do something every now and then to break the monotony.
3. She Wants to be Complimented
Appreciation. Everybody wants it. No one wants to feel as if the hard work they do goes unnoticed or even worse, it taken for granted.
Your wife does not have to clean your dirty clothes. And she does not have to cook your meals. But she does. And she does that on top of all the other things in her life:
  • Caring for the kids.
  • Working or going to school.
  • Striving to be a better Muslimah.
Show your Muslim wife that you appreciate and are thankful for the things she does to maintain you and your family. A simple “thank you” is a good start.
4. She’s Insanely Jealous
There’s a reason most women don’t care for polygamy. Be very careful how you talk about other women around your wife. Don’t ever compare your wife to another woman.
  • Don’t compare her to some female movie star.
  • Don’t compare her to your mother.
  • Never, ever compare her to your ex-wife (or other wife!)
She’s wants to know and believe that she is the center of your universe. So make her feel that way.
Even the Prophet’s (pbuh) wives got jealous. Aisha (RA) even got jealous of Khadijah (RA) who was dead.
Expect, and respect, the same type of jealousy from your wife.
5. She Wants You to Help Her become A Better Muslimah
I can’t stress enough the importance of men taking the role of leader within their families.
And that’s the problem with a lot of Muslim men these days.
Not only are they not being good leaders, they’re being led by their wives (or mothers, or other women in their lives).
Your wife desires and wants you to be her leader. And what better way to lead her than to be show her how to be a better Muslimah?
But you can’t show her how to become better if you’re not that great either. Therefore, you have to upgrade your Iman. You have to improve yourself and then pass it on to her in a gentle, respectful way.
6. She Doesn’t Like to Nag, But Sometimes You Make It Hard
It’s a common myth that women like to nag their husbands. That’s not entirely true.
Yes, there are some people (men and women) whom you can never please. No matter what you do, they’ll always find fault in something. Let’s be reminded of the following hadith:
Narrated Ibn ‘Abbas: The Prophet said: “I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful.” It was asked, “Do they disbelieve in Allah?” (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, “They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, ‘I have never received any good from you.” – Sahih Bukhari.
So, yes sisters should be careful about denegrating the things your husband does for you.
But very often, you brother, make it hard for her to hold your tongue.
Perhaps you’re always finding fault with her and she looks for things in your character to get even.
Perhaps you’re not working (or not working hard enough) and she has to work to take up some slack.
Perhaps you’re just not that great of a guy.
Once again, upgrade yourself and give her less reasons to complain and nag.
7. More Than Anything, She Wants a Stable, Happy Relationship With You
Women don’t get married just because they think it’s gonna be fun.
They get married because they want a happy family life and they believe you’re gonna give it to them.
Outside of her religious duties, that’s the most important thing in a Muslim woman’s life. Raising a happy, stable, Muslim family.
The funny thing is, it’s very easy for you to give that to her.
  1. Stop acting like a jerk. Be a good husband to her. Be kind. Show her you love her.
  2. Don’t threaten her with divorce or taking a second wife. Yes, you have the right to do both. But using them as threats is inappropriate and detrimental to your marriage.
  3. Trust in Allah, watch out for the tricks of Shaytan, and be patient with her. There’s nothing Shaytan would love more than to destroy your marriage.
See? That isn’t all that hard, now is it?

Saturday, November 23, 2013

Reality in life

we are humans. and definitely might not satisfies others. what goes around comes around. hiduplah atas muka bumi ini untuk mencari redha Allah. kita tidak perlu penghargaan manusia. sesungguhnya manusia mudah melupakan jasa. apa saja. mereka tetap akan bangkit dan pertikai. sungguhpun apa yg kita bantu itu untuk diri mereka jua. tidak mengapa. pastinya tanpa kita mereka mampu hidup sempurna. kerana adanya Allah pencatur dunia. begitu juga kita. tidak perlu khuatir akan komentar berganda. tanda2 perlu mengorak langkah mengubah cara. disinilah. kita akan bersama2 menuju hala tuju yang sama. walau cara hidup berbeza. tetap akan bangkit berkumpul ditempat yang sama. InshaAllah.

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Ahmad Ammar Dalam Kenangan 1993-2013


Link video ini ke You Tube.

Tidak mengenali adik ini. 
Namun hati tersentuh dengan pengembaraan beliau.
Tersentuh dengan kesan didikan ibu ayahnya.
Sehingga menjdikannya Syahid ke Jalan Allah.

Semoga kita, suami, isteri, dan anak2 kita
mampu mencontohi beliau dalam ertikata sebenar sebuah kehidupan

Pandangan Allah lebih Utama.

Kadangkala kita lupa.
Siapa kita untuk menilai orang.
Nilaian kita belum tentu tepat.
Kerana bukan kita yg berada ditempat orang.

Kadangkala ku tidak mengerti.
Mengapa masih ada insan yg gemar menggali kisah silam orang.
Apakah kamu mengerti apa yang terjadi?

Maka sentiasa beringatlah.
Jika sekalipun kita sudah berubah.
Jangan terkejut jika ada insan2 yang masih ditakuk lama.
Masih mencari2 keburukan kita dari masa silam.
masih menyebut2 seperti kita tiada harga diri lagi.

Dan..disitulah kita akan ketahui.
Dimana tahapnya ketahanan kita.
Maka.Utamakanlah pandangan Allah daripada pandangan manusia.
Abaikanlah mereka seperti debu2 pasir yang berterbangan.
Seperti buih2 ombak ombak yang menghempas pantai.
Maafkanlah mereka.
Doakanlah mereka.
Agar mereka mampu untuk berubah dan sentiasa dalam lindunganNYA.

Thursday, November 14, 2013

Wall Graffiti at Taman Molek

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Terus terang cakap.
 Memalukan.
Apa lah yang JB authorities ni takut benar nak biarkan graffiti disitu.
Itu memang situasi sebenar.
Setiap masa kami di kawasan taman molek dan johor jaya ni rasa tak selamat.
Hari2 berlakunya crime.
 Ia sepatutnya berada di situ. Kekal disitu.
Supaya semua orang sentiasa Alert dgn keadaan sekeliling.
Dan, ia juga sebagai satu teguran paling sinis untuk JB authorities termasuklah pihak Polis.
Tak faham kenapa jenayah tak surut2.

Wall graffiti turning heads in Johor

JOHOR BARU - Wall graffiti by Lithuanian-born artist Ernest Zacharevic of a man holding a knife, apparently waiting for a female victim around the corner, has attracted people to Taman Molek here to snap photographs of the art.
Passers-by and even families with young children had been stopping their cars by the roadside to take quick shots of the graffiti painted on two walls along Jalan Molek 1/9.
Zacharevic had previously made the news when his art known as "Boy on a Bike" and "Little Children on a Bicycle" were painted on walls in Penang.
His two other paintings in Johor Baru included a couple looking at a large tree which Zacherevic cleverly drew around existing clumps of green moss and a painting of a water slide which leads to an actual pipe opening in Taman Johor Jaya.
Director of a printing company Jacky Choo, 41, who lives in the area, brought his nine-year-old daughter to check out the graffiti after he saw several postings of it on Facebook.
"Hopefully, this will inspire Malaysians to get more creative with art," he said.
The graffiti has sparked a debate especially among Netizens about the meaning behind the art.
There had been diverse opinions after a picture of the graffiti was posted on "What's Going On In Johor Baru", a page dedicated to state events.
Facebook user William H.K. Goh said that the art was done in rather bad taste.
"Surely Johor Baru deserves better than this negative portrayal. As a Johorean, I feel insulted," he said.
Johor Domestic Trade, Con­su­merism and Tourism exco Datuk Tee Siew Kiong also said that the painting of the knife-wielding man gave a negative image, especially for tourists. However, he added that it was up to the local authorities to decide whether it wanted to repaint the wall.

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Homemade Pizza - Yeast & Non yeast base

cuti deepavali yg lepas kami stay dirumah saja.while for awal muharram dimanfaatkan dgn percubaan membuat pizza sendiri. 

So i search for basic dough recipe through the internet and i found out that Jamie Oliver's is the most easiest. Since this is my 1st attempt on pizza. Mcm gerun pun ada. Mmg akan expect kecacatan pd 1st trial. Biasalah kan. (n_^) 


Recipe source :

So I gather up all the ingredient and started kneading in my mum's (now it's mine) so called mixer. 
 Initially, i was wondering why my dough looks a bit slurry. 

rupanya tersalah sukatan.
nak buat separuh dari sukatan asal tapi terambil pula sukatan penuh untuk air..
huru hara.

ok. ini hasil setelah di olah semula ikut sukatan penuh.
alihkan doh dari mixer ke dlm bekas yg ditaburi tepung.
uli skit sampai tak melekat langsung kat tangan dan tumbuk2 skit untuk keluarkan udara yg terperangkap..


next step; 
tutup dgn kain lembap dan biarkan selama 45-60min di tempat yg berhaba panas
(proses tumbesaran akan lebih cepat)

 tengok tu: gendut


seterusnya, pembahagian doh mengikut saranan encik Jamie adalah 6-8ketul doh kecil untuk base pizza yg kita boleh buat anytime.
simpan dlm peti sejuk. tiba masa nak guna tu, bolehlah terus keluarkan dari fridge dan biarkan sekejap pd suhu bilik sebelum proses baking.

nampak sangat tak sekata pembahagian ini.


Langkah seterusnya;

sediakan bahan2 topping
ya. apa saja.
ikut selera dan citarasa.


dan;

griskan pan pizza atau loyang atau ramekins atau apa2 yg tahan oven.
letak doh dlm pan. 
tekan2 guna jari sehingga doh memenuhi pan.
atau boleh roll out guna rolling pin.
cucuk doh dgn garfu.
bakar sekejap lebih kurang 10 min dlm oven yg dah dipanaskan terlebih dahulu dgn suhu 170deg C.
 keluarkan dan dah boleh start spread topping sauce.

Gambar bawah:
 
Wafa Afiqah sedang sibuk didapur.
Setiap masa soalan demi soalan terpaksa mama jawab untukmu nak.
dan tak jemu2 tunggu mama siap.
dan juga sibuk nak tolong.
harap2 sampai besar nt pun rajin mcm ni ye syg.


Siap.
tabur mozarella cheese.
koyak2 skit sliced cheddar cheese.
masukkan sos dan mayon dlm piping bag
potong hujungnya
layerkan atas topping terakhir.
Alhamdulillah.
Syukur kerana dapat bersabar dengan kerenah doh dan anak.
ish.ish.


Fresh from oven.
untuk kali kedua. 
yang ini version non yeast base.
resepi ambil dari buku resepi percuma.
lebih mudah. tak perlu uli begitu lama.
hasil selepas bakar boleh tahan. dia akan jd thin crust.


Definitely will do this again!
InshaAllah.